Showing posts with label Bali. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Bali. Show all posts

Thursday, March 1, 2012

Journey Forward: A Letter to Myself One Year Ago

Dear Rebecca, 

You are burning the candle at both ends.


This is what you do. It is going to take it's toll on your body, your heart, your patience and your relationships. You will break and be remade (both figuratively and literally).
Things work how they are supposed to though, for reasons you have yet to see. 

The effort you've put in now, the pain, the exhaustion, the stress will pay off in spades. 

You will make it to Bali and have a week of wonderful. 



You will renew friendships and reaffirm things you know about yourself but have put on a shelf; that you are strong, that you are able, that you need to change your life and it cannot wait. 


You will find the strength to do this thing because you know it is your future. Don't settle. Find balance. 
You can't change anyone but yourself; this is your time for you. 


You will heal and learn to trust God and the people He puts in your life. You will learn to love in a way you didn't know was possible. 

Everything will be topsy turvy but you will find your way. 

Your year will be full of adventures you haven't planned and people you've never met. 

The things you value will change but the most important things will remain. You will learn that you don't have to please everyone all the time. You will get better at saying no. You won't feel the need to over-analyze and gain approval of every facet of your relationship because ultimately, it isn't about what works for others. 

Be confident and trust your instincts. After all, you have to take risks to truly gain. 

Playing it safe won't cut it. 

At the end of this year, you will still be burning the candle at both ends, but your time will be spent in dramatically different ways. You will be in school and you will be academically challenged for the first time. Skating by won't work anymore.

You will spend your weekends going non-stop. You will get lost in those weekends and it will keep you going. 

Take time for yourself and the things that restore you.

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Keep putting one foot in front of the other and things will work out the way they should. 


Chelsea from LifeIsASunset hosts the Journey Forward challenge. 

Please stop by Chelsea's page if you are interested in other journeys. 

She has had an incomprehensible year. 

Keep her in your thoughts and prayers. 

Friday, December 16, 2011

What She's Doing Now

Remember when I went to Bali for that gorgeous wedding?

Everything was exquisite. The bride was chic and the groom was handsome. 

The decor was tasteful and the location was idyllic. 










Said gorgeous bride, lives in Hong Kong with her hubby now. Here's what she's up to these days...


Yes, she's in this video. Can you find her?

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

10 Day Challenge: Day 5

Day 5: 6 Places. 

1: Bali
This summer, my best friend got married in Bali. It was such a beautiful island and well worth the travel. 

2: Rothenburg, Germany
This town stole my heart. The architecture made you feel like you were in a fairy tale. While we were there, it started to snow and the snowflakes were beautiful and huge! 
 The Schneeballen (which translates as snowballs) desserts were amazing as well. My favorite was the chocolate one with a hazelnut nougat filling. So unbelievably delicious!  
Schneeballen


3: In front of the Temple of Poseidon in Greece
Those little people in the middle are my mom and me. I think out of all the places I went in Greece, Mars Hill was probably my favorite because of the view. Normally, I would have chosen the waterfront location, but everything was so bare and rocky by the Temple of Poseidon. It felt desolate to me. I've heard that Santorini is breathtaking and next time I go to Greece, I hope to check it out.

4: Mars Hill


5: Venice, Italy
Venice was a really cool town. I wish we had spent more time there. There were so many beautiful glass art pieces there. I'd love to go back and take a boat out to the glass blowing factories. 
6: Siena, Italy
I loved Siena. There were so many cafes with alfresco dining available. The roads in town were so narrow that many buses were unable to travel through. 

Tell me about your travels! Where have you traveled? What is your favorite type of thing to do when you go adventuring?

Friday, November 11, 2011

10 Day Challenge: Day 2

Day 2 of the Challenge! Nine loves. 

These will not be any type of particular order. 

9. My family: 

As much as they drive me crazy, it really is a blessing to come from such a large family. I have such a network of support, whether I want it or not. :) 

My mom is one of 5. My dad is one of 4. I'm one of 4. There are 16 cousins on one side of the family and 11 on the other side.  SO MANY PEOPLE.

It's fun too, now that we're older, the age differences don't seem to matter as much.

And the newest addition to the fam: 

Vivi Kitty

8. Water: 
For years, I swam on swim team year round. 
One of my winter coaches dubbed me with the most awful nickname, Reba, which has stuck, to this day.

 Sailing also took over a solid portion of our summers down at Indian Landing. 


Most people don't get the Landing. It's sort of a time capsule. 


A lot of our parents grew up there, and we've all taken our turns working there. 


I spent a summer coaching swim team with Bree & Richard.



It's a boat club, not a yacht club or a marina. 


There is a pool, tennis courts, basketball and woods to explore. We spent every summer there.


 Every parent was everyone else's parent. 

When people ask how I met some of my oldest, closest friends, they are shocked that I didn't meet them in school. To this day, I won't give up my membership. 


7. Bright Colors: 
Yes, we had an inflatable pool full of play place balls at our house in college. 
No explanation necessary. 


6. Sequins & Sparkles




5. Storms: 
Specifically, that crazy still moment right before a storm. 


4. Travel adventures:


3. Books: 
The smell of old books. 
The way you can get lost in a novel. 
Wandering through a library. 
Challenging concepts and ideas to tackle. 
I could get lost in here for hours.
2. Churches: 

Old, elegant Churches with traditional liturgy. 
I think my favorite so far is the Duomo in Siena
1. Crabs feasts and Beer:

 What can I say? I'm a MD girl at heart! 

Friday, July 22, 2011

A Daily Act of Love

The second I stepped off the plane in Denpasar, the perfumed air struck me. Everything smelled sweetly and I knew I was in a foreign place. It was such a contrast to the smell of burnt sugar from the Domino Sugar factory here in Baltimore! Almost immediately, I located the source of the scent.


Bali is primarily Hindu and these are offerings made of palm fronds and are filled with flower petals and incense. Women create these newly every morning as an offering to the lower spirits, the evil which they recognize has root in all of us. Diligently, day in, day out, they pour their devotion into these offerings and place them on door stoops, window sills, dashboards in vehicles, and on and on, to protect their loved ones from evil and calamity. 

It made me question, what do I direct my energies towards on a daily basis? Are they directed towards something that benefits me or the people I love? Do I create or do I destroy?

Just something to ponder. 

I Need a Friday

I am in serious need of a Friday, preferably one in Bali. Just recently, I made some very big life changing decisions. Isn't it funny how you can see so clearly once you've taken a step back and separated yourself from things a bit?

My separation came in the form of an awesome Balinese adventure. I realize not everyone can jump on a plane and travel 30 hours to Indonesia to gain some perspective...unless of course you are Liz from Eat, Pray, Love. Did anyone else get stuck in India for a very long time? She just went on and on!



In my case I travelled for my best friend's wedding. Enjoy the pictures...yes, everything was that beautiful.





Have a great weekend everyone, and try to survive the heat sweeping the East Coast!